I NEED SOME ADVICE ON GIRLS

[evilmonkey]

WHY DO GIRLS CROWD AROUND YOU ALL AT ONCE. usually i live my life with no one likeing me or anything then its like a bomb goes off and they all like me. makin me make a descision so fast and i don't know what to do cause i'm not sure who i wanna be with.. its like they are raptors http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/lol.gif all comin in for the kill but whos gonna get it??? What should i do help!! thanks

[Diesel]

Use this advice on girls...
Girls are icky!!! Stay away from them.
:):):):):):):)

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I am Jack's raging inner child. Without me, Jack has to deal with the pitfalls of reality.

[mthrlangl]

Oh, please..boys are the exact same way :p Really, though, Poss is right..take your time. :) And if you do decide to play the field, make sure you're up front about it with all the girls - don't make each one feel like the one-and-only.

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You know, Hobbes, some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help. - Calvin

[possum37]

And if you do decide to play the field, make sure you're up front about it with all the girls - don't make each one feel like the one-and-only.

Girls, that goes for you too. Otherwise, we guys will harbor long-term resentment towards you. No, really, we will...of course, not that *I'm* bitter or anything...


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My knob tastes funny.

[spidergoolash]

man, what are you complaining about http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/lol.gif j/k. seriously though - enjoy - like the others said - take your time - why rush? most importantly though, be honest, as you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. when the right one comes along, you'll know ...

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"it's easier to stay out than get out"

[liltaz]

So why not just play the field and date around? Tell them you're not up for a committed relationship and you'll date other people. Who says you have to only be with one person at a time? As long as that person knows that you're not only dating her then you're doing nothing wrong.

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A conservative is a liberal who's been mugged.

[possum37]

I know what you mean - when it comes to female companionship, it's either feast or famine. When they come in droves, *take your time*. The ones that will pressure you to make a decision are the ones who will realize a couple months in that things moved too quickly. That, or they'll cheat on you - gotta love it when that happens... http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/hmph.gif


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My knob tastes funny.

[JHowse]

Evilmonkey,

Whatcha complaining about? That's a GOOD thing to have happen. Just like everyone else said, don't rush, just play the field for now, be honest, and most important, HAVE FUN!!!! That's what it really is all about anyway, right? Go get 'em! http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/supergrin.gif

<font color="#000000">[Edited by JHowse on July 29, 2000 (edited 1 time)]</font>

[Anaka]

Well, it seems the vote is unanimous here. Be honest, date those that interest you, and chose one if you want to make it a one-on-one thing, or just date around. Just don't lie to them and make any of them think they are number one. That will backfire and both of you will get hurt in the end. ENJOY IT WHILE YOU GOT IT!!!!

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[Finity]

i just have a problem meeting girls in the first place. i never have a problem with them crowding around me :(

[possum37]

It'll happen when you least expect it, Finity - and possibly when it's the most inconvenient time. You're just about to take your relationship to a new level when her smarter, better-looking, more caring girlfriend/sister/whomever takes an interest in you...

Whatever happened to those days? ;)


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My knob tastes funny.

[mpeg]

I hear girls like to "crowd" around gay men too. :) jk

[liltaz]

We do because gay men are some of the few decent men we have. http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/supergrin.gif

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A conservative is a liberal who's been mugged.

[eminem]

Originally posted by evilmonkey:
WHY DO GIRLS CROWD AROUND YOU ALL AT ONCE. usually i live my life with no one likeing me or anything then its like a bomb goes off and they all like me. makin me make a descision so fast and i don't know what to do cause i'm not sure who i wanna be with.. its like they are raptors http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/lol.gif all comin in for the kill but whos gonna get it??? What should i do help!! thanks

The same thing has been happening to me! I feel a lot of pressure whenever that happens.

[liltaz]

Shouldn't be any pressure...just tell em there's enough to go around

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A conservative is a liberal who's been mugged.

[eminem]

Originally posted by liltaz:
Shouldn't be any pressure...just tell em there's enough to go around




http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/lol.gif, thats pretty good.

[Masterchief]

Listen my friend - Here is what you do.

Ride it out.
Wait to see the result.

Patience is a virtue.
OR pick the honest one.

I have had experience




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[liltaz]

girls..who needs em? get a dog.

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A conservative is a liberal who's been mugged.

[mthrlangl]

Same thing for boys..except I'd rather have a kitty..or a little dog. (Our dogs are freakin' huge.)

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You know, Hobbes, some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help. - Calvin

[possum37]

Nope, I've gotta disagree - I'd much rather have a girl than an animal companion. Dogs are fun, cats can even be fun sometimes...but there's just no getting around the fact that female companionship within your own species is a LOT more fun.

And I stand by that. http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/love.gif


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My knob tastes funny.

[mthrlangl]

Yes, but (and keep in mind that I'm slightly bitter at the moment) dogs and cats don't ignore you (well..cats might, but not always) and they're totally dependent on you, which can be nice. Also, they don't care if you cry in their fur or kiss their noses or pat their heads. And they can't say not nice things, either.

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You know, Hobbes, some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help. - Calvin

[liltaz]

well I have to say I love my dogs and my SO. but women are the WORST creatures...they're just to catty...the many of them that I know anyways...

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A conservative is a liberal who's been mugged.

[mthrlangl]

See, I've always gotten along better with boys than I have with girls. I agree, though, to each other especially, girls can be nasty.

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You know, Hobbes, some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help. - Calvin

[possum37]

Just keep in mind, mth, that a lot of us guys *do* like nose kisses and head pats. Heck, most of us will go bananas over *any* attention we get! :)


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My knob tastes funny.

[nootch]

Originally posted by possum37:
Just keep in mind, mth, that a lot of us guys *do* like nose kisses and head pats. Heck, most of us will go bananas over *any* attention we get! :)


Amen, Poss!

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[liltaz]

I've also always gotten along better with the guys than with the girls. The girls were always too prissy and catty for me. I grew up being "just one of the guys"

[mthrlangl]

::grumble grumble grumble:: Talk to my boy, then..knock some sense into him or something :)

Just keep in mind, mth, that a lot of us guys *do* like nose kisses and head pats. Heck, most of us will go bananas over *any* attention we get!


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You know, Hobbes, some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help. - Calvin

[Masterchief]

I had a dog, his name was Jyp..

He died last February, he was older than me, he was 17 when he died.

Thats a really long life for a dog, and he never even went to the vet once.

He died of old age. I found him on that morning propped up against a door, I thought he was just sleeping but he wouldn't wake up...

He was a black and white Jack Russel terrier and wouldn't hurt a sole.

I'd give anything to bring Jyp back, Jyp is far better than any girl.

So my advice brother : Get a dog. They can split up with you , can they?
They also won't let you down or hurt your feelings.

A dog is a mans best friend in other words.

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[mthrlangl]

Yeah, and diamonds are a girl's best frined :p

Seriously, though. I'm sorry about your dog. My daddy had one of my dogs put to sleep and didn't tell me for a month.

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You know, Hobbes, some days even my lucky rocketship underpants don't help. - Calvin