Friend or Foe?

[Lila]

I HATE having to reevaluate my friendships!

I can't stand my friend. Ever since her divorce, she's been using me as a punching bag. I'm aware that she is a selfish, "I'm better than you", bully that likes to stir things up but theses character traits weren't PREDOMINATE before her break up (or maybe they wereand she just had a husband to abuse instead of me). I've given her plenty of time to heal from her divorce and let many of her snide, rude comments and critisims go unretorted. I've even expressed my feelings to her but all to no avail. When and if the time comes for our friendship to end, I hope I keep my cool. If not, "You can take a flying leap into a burning building" will be heard 'round the world.

[Alyth]

YEah, I had peopel like that that try to walk all over their friends because they think they can. My opinion is to ask her what it is that makes so angry at you or at least why does she talk to you like that. Maybe it's get her to think about how she's treating you. It's wrong cause that's how friendships end alot of the time. Also maybe you should make it clear that you still want to be her friend but as long as she talks to you like that you can not be around for her under those circumstances. Then tell her that until she starts to talk to you like a human being then you will talk to her and still be the friend she obviously needs.

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"I've been around the world and found that only stupid people are breeding..."

[bigmac]

Women are way too sensitive (in generalhttp://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/smile.gif A couple kicks in the a$$ will straighten her up. Then you explain why you did it, then comes the rebonding which should be stronger than ever as long as you didn't kick too hardhttp://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/smile.gif I hate cry babies men or women, and in my experience the men are the worsthttp://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/smile.gif

[Always An Alien]

Sometimes it's just best to walk away. If you were a good friend and the kindness was not returned, then it's okay to just go your own way. You'll make new/better friends. See you already found a new message board with all of us.http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/smile.gif

[spidergoolash]

sounds like this "friendship" is not worth the effort. do what aaa said - just walk away. it's not worth it if she's going to drag you down too - how depressing http://www.aliensoup.com/ubb/smilies/frown.gif

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"it's easier to stay out than get out"